We are surrounded by naysayers and
disbelievers.
People who will enlist a truckload of reasons
why you will fail on a chosen path before they can point out one
reason why you should go for it. It becomes increasingly difficult to
ignore those voices when they come from your close ones. Friends and
family especially. But that’s when you reach for and hold on
tightly to one inalienable truth. What you can and cannot do depends
majorly on what you think you are capable of. The most
powerful, versatile and equally volatile weapon at your behest is
your mind and how you control what goes on within it. Let me stop
before I get too preachy and ask you to retrospect. When was the last
time you were up against a formidable task. An opponent on the field,
a mountain to climb, a deadline too close, a challenge deemed
grueling and too difficult but you decided to take it on nevertheless
and prevailed. Try and think about your state of mind then and I’m
sure one of the main reasons you overcame was merely because you
believed you could. Strongly and firmly. And no matter what
happened around you or what people said, you knew deep down you could
and everything else followed suit when the moment came.
I stumbled on this story recently of how until
April 1955 everyone in the world believed that it was impossible for
mankind to break the 4 minute barrier. They believed it was
impossible for anyone to run a mile under 4 minutes. And then along
came a certain Roger Bannister who proved them wrong. The
significance of this story is what happened after that. Since that
day till today, over twenty five thousand people have broken that
barrier and many of them include high school kids. Twenty five
thousand! Do you know what changed?
When the people after bannister stepped on the
track, they knew that someone else had done it before them. They knew
it was not impossible. They believed that if he could they could too.
The key word here is they believed.
This true story exemplifies the power of your
own mind. Of belief. When training at the highest level most of the
trainers put their teams and athletes through session of what is
commonly called visualization. The sportsmen are asked to isolate and
focus on what they need to do. Visualize themselves run, or hit a
ball, or jump a hurdle. Picture them performing that act and here’s
the wonder, when they train after, the body performs better. Its
almost like your body has been given a step by step handbook of what
it is to do and how and it follows it to the ‘T’.
The point I'm trying to make here, is that we
all have a want list of thing we would like own, places we would like
to be, how we would like to look and feel, podiums we want to stand
on and feel what it tastes like to be the best. Things we want to
work out for ourselves personally. Professionally. Materialistically.
Emotionally.
What if you were told that everything you
wanted was possible, all you had to do was believe in yourself with
enough conviction to drown out the doubts of others and more
importantly yourself. And when you get there and look back what you've just achieved, you will realize you've just broken a mental
barrier and now everything else you deem possible is within reach.
As simple as it sounds, it’s not an easy task
to do. But once done, nothing is impenetrable.